Help
Tips
Form
Help
budbuz
Service to make an activity wishlist,
share it with friends, and connect better.
Activity Wishlist
A list of activities that may
range from simple to extravagant.
Code
Enter email, code emailed. If do not see, check Spam folder.
Code good up to 2 weeks. When expires, a new code is emailed.
Texts
To receive texts, send a text to your email and reply.
Use reply address as your email address.
For mobile plans with limits, message and data rates may apply.
Fixes
Find a typo, an error, or an improvement?
Use the form.
Form
Timezone
Check and update as needed,
such as for Daylight Saving Time.
Daylight Saving Time
Plans made before a change may show a different time after.
As not all areas change, this allows meeting at the same time.
Add Activity
Under Edit.
Schedule Button
Set a personal reminder.
Not part of score.
Add Contact Button
Adds a Public contact. Edit to update contact.
Contact must add you before activities may be proposed.
Propose Button
Propose activities 24 hours and up to 1 week in advance.
24 hours before proposed activity, if no reply, auto declined.
Score
Score an activity within 24 hours of its start
or it is given an automatic score.
± Score
Repay within 2 weeks or a ± turns -.
Repaying makes it a + (even if late).
Score Dispute
Hopefully rare and, the more activities completed,
the less a disputed score should mean.
Log
Find previous messages and activities.
Check if you haven't logged in lately.
Free
Service is free to use.
Allows you to track money you borrow.
Money listed is what you say you owe.
If repay in person, other person needs to click Repaid.
Some may find paying online more convienent and reliable.
These additional features are optional.
Gold Membership
Supports Service and offers a couple perks.
Get and send pay via PayPal to other members.
Enable color profile pic.
Refunds
Gold Memberships - refunds up to 30 days after statement.
Use form below to request a refund.
Repaying or Gifting others - refunds at their discretion.
Screen Reader
Title - for some (or no) readers.
Aria-label - for other readers.
Test to hear which works for reader.
Public Viewers
Contacts - Public contacts see.
Registered - Registered members see.
Anyone - Members and non-members see.
Away
When Profile is set to Away,
others cannot propose activities.
Menu
Tips
Sharing
Be careful what info you share.
Assume all info may become public.
Contacts
Only add those you are comfortable with,
such as people you know and trust offline.
Safety
Ensure the person you are
planning to meet is who they say.
Activities
Unless a trusted friend, plan activities in safe public places.
Let a trusted person know your plans or even invite them to join.
Scents
Many people are sensitive to scents.
Using scent-free products is recommended.
Physical Health
Meeting outdoors, masked, or online;
take any health steps you prefer
to meet personal and legal criteria.
Mental Health
1-800-273-TALK
1-800-273-8255
TTY: 1-800-799-4889
Emojis
Emojis may clarify tone and help interactions
or confuse with different looks and meanings to others.
Use as few emojis as needed to convey your message.
Skills
Connecting with others takes skills.
Ways to help you engage others and others engage you.
If hard, look to add ways to help make connecting easier.
Menu